#CCD9FF | backdated to 2/3

[spiria]

does anybody have any advice for going on a first date?

[ she argued with herself for hours on whether to post this or not ... but finally decided maybe it would be beneficial to get some outside advice?? ]

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#ffff99

[troubadamsel]

[She doesn't really support other-world dating, but one date can't do too much harm, eh?]

First and foremost, you must relax. This is meant to be a good time for you both.

[spiria]

Yes, that's a good thing to remember ...

I've never really been on a date before, so I don't know what to expect, but that makes sense.

[troubadamsel]

The point of a date is to get to know your partner better, to see if you're truly compatible. So ask yourself, what makes you nervous about this?

[spiria]

Well ... We've been pretty good friends for a while, maybe I'm nervous about maybe taking it further than that?

I don't know ...

[troubadamsel]

Are you afraid about your friendship changing?

[spiria]

A little? There's a bit more to it than that, but ... That's not something I'm really ready to discuss with too many people.

[troubadamsel]

In that case, I can only offer limited advice.

However, I can say this - You'll be fine.

#FFC100

[good_ideas]

just have fun
Wear comfortable shoes
If you can make something then bring food
Otherwise find someone good at it, take their food and pretend you made it

[spiria]

Oh, food isn't an issue! He's the one making the food. He's really good at it, too.

Why wear comfortable shoes, though?

[good_ideas]

lucky you!

also you need comfortable shoes because you might need to walk a bit if you're going out for a date?
you want to be prepared so you don't end up limping at the end of the day

[spiria]

I don't know if we're planning on going anywhere other than the cafe ... I remember he said he didn't really know where else would be okay to go for a date.

[good_ideas]

if this is a first date then i recommend the library
is this akira's cafe? or rin's cafe?

[spiria]

Rin's.

#FFDF00

[inheritance]

(Color!)

There's a lot of things you could do on a first date, but I think it really depends on what the two of you like!

[spiria]

All we could really think of is to have a private dinner after work. What other things could we do?

#B91600

[heartsteals]

[ this is cute... lupin is charmed. ]

If you and your suitor are already on friendly terms then I see no reason for you to do anything other than be yourself - that is how the other party came to enjoy your presence so. My only recommendation would be to wear fine Clothes, if you have any in a place like this.

- Lupin

[spiria]

We are on friendly terms, yes! I think the city has given us some clothes, but I don't know if he plans on wearing anything other than whatever he has ... Maybe that's something I should ask him beforehand.

#AED6F1

[asano_san]

[ color ]

Be grateful you have a date.

[spiria]

Uh ...

I am, I promise.

#7BB2F2

[esperimental]

[ COLOR ]

If TV has taught me anything, the more you panic the worse it'll turn out-- but they will be charmed anyway.

Don't worry too much, or something.

[spiria]

Trying not to! This is my first date ever. I think maybe it's his, too. We've been friends for a while now, but ... He asked me on a date and I said yes.

... Does this make us boyfriend and girlfriend now? I'm so confused by this whole dating thing.

[esperimental]

I think that depends more on your mentality than the term. Actions speak louder than words, or something?

But there's no rush, even if hearing the official title feels nice for everyone before the credits roll, ranging from a few episodes to half a season after.

[ ritsu... please stop taking your tv dramas so seriously. ]

[spiria]

... Episodes?

[ She does not understand your tech lingo, buddy. ]

[esperimental]

Ah, right. Some of you might not have television huh? Think of it like theatre plays? Do you have those?

Performance acts in general.

[spiria]

Oh! Yes, we have things like that. So what makes this ... ah. Television? Different from a live performance?